08-01-2018 03:32 AM
1. This thread was intended to be a place for anyone (including myself) to post an honest feeling or comment about their life and how they are going. This doesn't have to be in context you can just post something totally random it just has to be honest and as long as it makes sense to you that is fine also it can be about absolutely anything.
2. (This is just a question on the side about honesty) what is it like to be honest with people around you about your mental health issues? Like can you just say how you are actually feeling and stuff without people getting mad or upset or something?
08-01-2018 03:55 AM
An honest thing about me: actually there are many honest things I write here on the forum that I don't share elsewhere. Just now, I'm thinking of how there are still days I can't get myself out to check the mailbox. It seems like such a basic thing, but my impulse to stay inside, away from public view, is just too strong some days. I find this embarrassing.
About being honest about mental health issues, I find that most people who do not have mental illness simply can't handle fully honest expressions of how we feel. It's only some people I am close to who can handle the truth about me most times. Even then, I am aware that my mental illness has the ability to negatively affect people and so, as much as possible, I try to manage the worst of things myself, with the help of the forum and my professional mental health supports. It would be great if everyone could take us fully for how we feel, but in my experience, the world (sadly) doesn't seem to work that way.
08-01-2018 05:46 PM
@Mazarita Thanks. I also find leaving the house difficult.
My honest thing for the day is.... I want to yell and scream at this one person but i know if i did it could have negative consequences for me but i dont even care how it would make them feel if i did.
08-01-2018 05:49 PM
I've had those kinds of feelings too, @Eden1919, and have even yelled at screamed at people in the past. I do almost anything to avoid that these days, as it hurt them so much and I later regretted it, felt terribly guilty and ashamed. I still carry these feelings to this day really. But I think it's great to be so open about how you feel. That's the first step to healing the pain that is giving rise to those feelings, and to release it.
08-01-2018 05:57 PM
Sometimes it is good to leave behind overly troubled relationships, @Eden1919. Sorry that you have to endure the situation for now. Do you ever use deep breathing techniques to try to calm down intense feelings that can't be released? I find that sometimes helps. Also, just writing about it is a great way for some people, like writing about it here. I like the idea of this thread.