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[outlander]

Thinking of you all @Former-Member@Former-Member@Appleblossom@Former-Member

[outlander]

Why did my post get posted in the worry room when it was on another thread? It has me really confused! I dont even know which thread im posting on currently its saying the worry room up the top under somethings not right but the thread is actually  -Enigma- 
@NikNik@Lauz@Margot

 

[Lauz]

Hey @outlander,

Thanks for tagging us - this is strange. We are checking this out now, will let you know when we know more!

[outlander]

Thanks @Lauz
Well it says youve tagged me in the worry room but im still posting on -enigma-s thread

[Lauz]

Hi again @outlander,

When you now reply to my post here has the title changed back?

It appears we are indeed in the -Enigma- thread however the title seems to have accidently changed to another thread's name.

[outlander]

The first tag was the worry room the second tag just jow is -enigma- @Lauz

So am i back in the right thread?

[outlander]

I just got a like from a member and it says the worry room again @Lauz

[Lauz]

Yes - just to clarify it appears you were always in the '-Enigma-' thread, the title of the thread though got changed when you posted for some strange reason.

I have now changed it back, so all the notifications and titles should be the same again. 

I'm not sure how that happened though...sorry for the confusion and for the momentary distraction in this conversation 

[outlander]

Thanks @Lauz seems to be working better now
How strange!

[Former-Member]

Hello @outlander@Former-Member@Appleblossom@BlueBay@oceangirl@Former-Member and all who have dropped into this thread asking after my welfare. It's so appreciated. I am okay.

I have been very busy completing what I set out to do a few months ago regarding serious matters which I am bringing to the attention of certain authorities that took priority; my family issues held it up but it is finally completed and sent. I apologise for not replying to you all sooner. 

I put my my foot down with my daughter. She said she will turn her life around, she will do anything we ask as she knows I am serious about putting her out. She is really trying and so far has kept her distance and blocked the partner and people who was abusing her and has turned to a healthy lifestyle once again. She has applied for a new job and saids she has never been happier.

So my tough love approach is working. It broke my heart to do this to her but if things progressed the way they were nothing would of changed and her life would of been ruined. Boundaries and respect in ones home have to be implemented for the good and welfare of all no matter how tough.

My dear friend has only a few months to live. Myself and husband have been there for him and his dear wife and will continue to be there till the very end. It has made me realise what really matters in life - love, family, friends and compassion.

My husband had a mild attack attack on top of it all. He is seeing a specialist next week. Keeping positive that all will be okay with him.

I have been busy with variations etc on the building of our new dream home and all is going well there - the dream isn't far off now.

My Managers and friends/staff at my volunteering work have been "so supportive" of me and have been there for me through this all. I went in last week and they all ran up and hugged me saying they are there if I need them - they said to ring them to talk or arrange a coffee and chat if I ever needed them. I was overwhelmed by their love and care. I am feeling so grateful for their support and love which has kept me going. So I am doing fine as a result.

I hope everyone here is doing okay. I won't be on here much because there is no time due to commitments and certain other concerning reasons, but I am thinking of you all. Just tag me if you need support at any time. Sending warm hugs and lots of love 😊💜🌹