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25-04-2019 02:40 PM
25-04-2019 02:40 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
I think the pdocs do put a lot of ??? re: diagnosis unless things are really clear @Shaz51 especially in relation to late onset patients.
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26-04-2019 07:47 PM
26-04-2019 07:47 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
hello @BryanaCamp
the last few days have been crazy @Former-Member , @outlander , @Owlunar , @Determined , @Ali11 , @Former-Member
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26-04-2019 07:54 PM
26-04-2019 07:54 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Hi @Shaz51
The last few days have been weird - for most of us - 3 public holidays in week is enough
and you have your Mum and her helpers and Mr Shaz as well -
This has to be intense
Dec
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26-04-2019 08:00 PM
26-04-2019 08:00 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
sure is my mum @Owlunar
wednesday afternoon we had off as I was unwell
thursday afternoon mr shaz and I fell asleep after lunch -- so no work for the afternoon , mr shaz was upset when he woke up
so we are going to work tomorrow -- saturday
I had a very restless night sleep last night with lots of pains
sooo tired now
then we are one step forward and 2 steps back as we need a new fuel tank for the rideon and now we need new belts for the rideon --- arrggggg
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26-04-2019 08:07 PM
26-04-2019 08:07 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Oh dear @Shaz51 more pain and more mower repairs. Life rarely runs smooth.
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26-04-2019 08:09 PM
26-04-2019 08:09 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
That is a busy week @Shaz51! Hope you're feeling better, maybe the thursday nap was needed?
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26-04-2019 08:12 PM
26-04-2019 08:12 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
thrusday nap was needed @Ali11 but then mr shaz blamed me for being soo slack about not working
no not feeling good tonight but fingers crossed for some sleep @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @Determined , @Former-Member
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26-04-2019 08:20 PM
26-04-2019 08:20 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
OOooooohhhhh @Shaz51
Mr Shaz went crook at you for not working - and he napped too - aw - bad boy!!
He does like to pick fights - at least that sounds as if he's picking a fight to me
That is so hard for you
Dec
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26-04-2019 08:24 PM
26-04-2019 08:24 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
ha ha yep @Owlunar , but I take no notice of him
he will not go and do the jobs himself -- he wants me to be with him -- because he says nothing goes wrong when I am with him
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26-04-2019 08:32 PM
26-04-2019 08:32 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Oh dear @Shaz51
Nothing goes wrong when you are with him?????
How does that work?
Actually my ex-h would doing chores in a slap-happy sort of way - I understand - this was so I would't ask him again but I did -
I used to threaten him with spitting in his gravy if he didn't put the vegies in with the roast when the alarm went off on Saturday afternoon - when I took a nap. It was so long ago I can't remember if I ever did - perhaps he remembered that - maybe the vegies always went in with the roast.
It has to be hard if you are accused of falling back on the job when he won't do anything without you. It that what they call passive-aggression
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