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29-11-2019 08:15 PM
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29-11-2019 08:20 PM
29-11-2019 08:20 PM
Re: Supporting a partner in a crisis
yes @Appleblossom @Shaz51 is such an amazing person, such a vital part of this wonderful forum.
actually yes @Appleblossom i have 🙂 i have planted 2 boganvillia's but i lost them for some reason, but i have what is called crazy dasies that are doing amazing. it is so hard to keep everything alive right now because of the heavy water restrictions.
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29-11-2019 08:21 PM
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Re: Supporting a partner in a crisis
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29-11-2019 08:31 PM
29-11-2019 08:31 PM
Re: Supporting a partner in a crisis
Gardening has a way of talking to us. Some things thrive, and we have to let other things go.
@Jacques I lost a creeper this year that I had been coaxing along but it really needed too much water and the right light. Tomorrow a gardener is coming to help trim the tall stuff that I cant get to. I wanted privacy and all my fences are over flowing ....lol ... but enough is enough .. I dont want the fences to fall down.
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29-11-2019 08:45 PM
29-11-2019 08:45 PM
Re: Supporting a partner in a crisis
yes that is so true @Appleblossom it is a way to slow things down and appreciate what we have around us.
im so glad you are getting help for parts of the garden you can't get too, i have just taken out 8 lime light trees, they got too overgrown and too hard to keep going, it opened up myyard so much, it made me too scared to go out there at first, but now it is nice to see out further than my own yard, maybe a small step for me to enjoy something other than my own yard 🙂
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30-11-2019 01:15 AM
30-11-2019 01:15 AM
Re: Supporting a partner in a crisis
That was lovely to hear that you are looking forward to experience beyond your backyard. I know you have a big one, but somehow making one's own decisions and seeing natural consequences allows a deeper settling and working through of life issues and we feel more free.
Lovely you are doing another boat.
Whooopsie I am UP at far too late an hour. Red Face ... lol
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30-11-2019 09:20 AM
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Re: Supporting a partner in a crisis
Thinking of you this morning @Jacques and hoping today is one of the better ones for you and your partner.
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19-12-2019 01:42 AM
19-12-2019 01:42 AM
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@Former-Member @Shaz51 @Appleblossom i think i have lost a friend tonight, we have been best friends for 6 years, tonight they told me they where going to take there own life. i tried everything to stop them, but they would not let me help.
im so devistated
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19-12-2019 02:42 AM
19-12-2019 02:42 AM
Re: Supporting a partner in a crisis
Hi Jacques,
My name is Buddy13 and I am one of the forum moderators. Sorry to hear of your difficult time with your friend tonight. If you have concerns for their safety please don't hesitate to contact 000 and let them know your concerns. Based on your description of your interactions with your friend the person answering your call will be able to assess the risk and take appropriate action if needed.
Kind Regards
Buddy13
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19-12-2019 08:03 AM